"I'm really demanding. No girl really wants just a guy. You want a prince. You want Jesus. So when he comes around and his name is like, Steve, what are you supposed to do?" ~ Macy Gray
That cracked me up! ESPECIALLY because she picked the name Steve. Yesterday was the big day... I am officially a divorcee. I don't think I like that term so much... I'm going to boycott it.
We had a such a good morning. We went to breakfast where we talked and laughed the whole time, went to court and then he changed the headlight in my car :) Such a good Wasband. When we got in the courtroom there was a couple already seated at the tables in front of the judge and although they were sitting at 2 separate tables they had their backs turned to each other. Steve and I sat down on the bench and he put his arm around me and started laughing and I said "if we don't stop getting along so well, the judge isn't going to grant us a divorce!" I am so happy with how things are with us and how amicable we are. He is my friend again and I hope it always stays that way.
When I was in therapy earlier this week Rick asked if I had any regrets and I was able to honestly say no. I wouldn't change the experiences I had because it has made me who I am. I needed to go through that... as painful as it was at times it was also really good at times. I know we have done the right thing and I have never had second thoughts. I also know that I will always love him, as a friend and as my first (and only) Wasband.
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I am really glad you two still get along. I too hope it stays that way. I can't wait to see you!
I am glad it went so well and you two are parting on good terms. You are officially starting a whole new chapter of your life--here's to you!
um, that comment wasn't from mom--it was from me, Meagan, I guess I am signed in under mom's account...anywhoha, luv.
i do love you so and i'm glad that you have no regrets.
What more could you ask for - that than feeling of peace?? Good for you A.
Who is "Wasband" character, anyway?
Glad things are well!
hey! it's your cousin, ashley! (bob and betsy's daughter). i got ahold of your blog and was happy to hear that you live in ca! did i understand right? My husband and I just moved to San Fran a couple months ago! I would love to get in touch! Let me know, drop me a line!
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